So I must say shame on me for not posting lately, I even have a reminder on my wall, but these past several weeks have been absolutely insane. I will tell you that I have been venturing out and trying new things, so Ive been keeping on half of my bargain. So lets start off where I intended to leave off, which was St. Patrick's Day, or how we Miami natives say it "St.Patty's Day: aka: another excuse to drink and get wasted....".
Well I have to admit I never thought I could have so much fun on that day living in Miami. I have celebrated the infamous green beer holiday, but just never in my hometown. The first time I even experienced a almost true (since it wasn't in Ireland) St. Patty's Day, it was in Tallahassee. Which was fairly decent in comparison to this past celebration. I have to definitely give props to John Martin's and Miracle for making it happen, or maybe it was the good company I had who knows. One things for sure, when you've got great company and beer flowing, its bound to be a good night. Which it was, until life got in the way and a friend in the group lost their brand new iPhone 4, for the second time. Not fun. However, there were a few things that I noticed that night, that I have to share because to me their absolutely absurd and it involves both the women and the men in this world.
1. Ladies, when you have to go to go take a bus, drive, swim, walk, run, fly or do anything to go sleep with someone who is NOT your boyfriend or husband, there's a problem. And even in some situations that's even unacceptable. But then you wonder why he left you after that magical night, week, month and never once treated you like a lady.Well I have your answer and its stated two sentences ago! If you are ever going to "put out" make him work for it! DUH!!
2. Guys, please tell me where you get off thinking that buying me a drink is a way for you to talk to me!? Just because you offer to buy me a drink doesn't mean I owe you ANYTHING! (Unless, you are a friend then this excludes you) On this eventful night, as I was walking down a side street, a random guy peeks his out head from the restaurant he was at, and calls out "hey beautiful, let me buy you a drink!". Okay, yes I should be "grateful" for the fact that people "compliment" me blah blah blah, but that is NOT a compliment or even a good way to get a girl to talk to you. Granted if you can afford to buy random people drinks, hey that's great, but at least from this random girl don't expect anything at all.
***DISCLAIMER: If you are a friend of mine and had purchased drinks for me, don't worry ill return you the favor in more alcohol ***
Lesson learned, ladies don't give yourself up that easy, because then your not worth fighting for. And for the men that read this, be more creative when approaching a girl. If you want to get to know her, don't make her feel like your just trying to get into her pants, make her feel special without being creepy. Nobody wants a creeper.
